Difficult Times of Valerie Bertinelli: From Her Really Sad Wedding Day to a Painful Divorce

Valerie Bertinelli might portray the image of a blessed life, but in reality it is a little different. She has suffered from her fair share of painful experiences. Famously known for playing "girl next door" Barbara Cooper on "One Day at a Time," Valerie Bertinelli's life appears to be touching gold.

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However, that could not be further from the truth. Her personal life has had many tumultuous moments. From her struggle with drug addiction to cheating on her then-husband, rock star, Eddie Van Halen, and even a long struggle with body-image issues. Here is a glimpse into this woman's troubled past.

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A CHILD STAR

Bertinelli is an American actress and author who has won two Golden Globe Awards  and has become a household name thanks to her roles such as Melanie Moretti on ‘Hot in Cleveland’ and Barbara on ‘One Day at a Time.’ The award-winning star began her acting career when she was just a young teenager, at the age of 15.

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The actress was able to professionally pursue her acting dream when she struck up a friendship with the daughter of a TV producer one day. Ever since then, Valerie’s love for show business continued to grow. The celebrity ended up studying at the Tami Lynn School of Artists and started her career as an actress soon after.

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HER CAREER

Valerie first received experience as an actress in 1974,  on an episode of the TV series ‘Apple’s Way.’ Her big break finally came in 1975, appearing on CBS’ hit show ‘One Day at a Time.’ By 1981, Bertinelli was successful enough to form her own film company and produced ‘Shattered Vows’ in 1984, as well as ‘Silent Witness’ in 1985.

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She didn't only produce shows, she also acted in television movies as well. Bertinelli continued to act in various films and series throughout the years, including ‘C.H.O.M.P.S.,’ and 'Ordinary Heroes'. Over the years, Valerie gained a significant amount of weight and was being publicly slammed for it. By March 2009, she lost 50lbs. after joining Jenny Craig’s weight loss program. 

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She went on to become a spokesperson for the program and was on a number advertisements. In 2010, the star was invited to co-host ‘The View’ and starred in the hit TV series ‘Hot In Cleveland’. When the show ended in 2015, Bertinelli has been hosting a food show called ‘Kids Baking Championship,’ which airs on Food Network.

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HER CURRENT NET WORTH

Most of her net worth has come from her marriage to Eddie Van Halen, along with her successful career. The current estimation is around $20 million, which has been earned thanks to the decades of hard work the star has been putting in, in order to thrive. 

Eddie Van Halen with his wife Valerie Bertinelli February 18, 1995 | Getty Images / Global Images Ukraine

Eddie Van Halen with his wife Valerie Bertinelli February 18, 1995 | Getty Images / Global Images Ukraine


Bertinelli opened up about her new memoir, "Losing It: And Gaining My Life Back One Pound at a Time," where she describes the pain of her past on the Today show. She said::  "It's really about what happened to me, the choices I made — good, bad, ugly — and how it changed me.'

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She went on to add, "how I was able to get beyond that. I figured I really had been under this façade for so long. And then when Jenny Craig called me and I was able to successfully do their diet, I thought there's nothing left to really hide from anymore."

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OPENING UP ABOUT HER ADDICTION

In her memoir, she spoke about substance abuse. She even discussed the very first time she started experimenting. Valerie revealed that she first tried cocaine with her  "One Day" co-star Mackenzie Phillips as a teenager. However, she only began truly experimenting with substances after dating Eddie Van Halen. Bertinelli eventually decided to get clean and finally kicked the habit.

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HER MARRIAGE TO EDDIE VAN HALEN

Eight months after Eddie and her started dating, they tied the knot. She was only twenty years old at the time, and their wedding day was actually extremely sad. In her book,  she revealed that drugs played a significant role in their marriage from the beginning.

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"The priest we tapped to perform the ceremony gave us questionnaires so he could get to know us better and offer more personal words. As we filled out the forms at home, we each held a little vial of coke," wrote Bertinelli. She later said in an interview, "It doesn't really bode well for the marriage, I don't think." 

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INFIDELITY IN MARRIAGE 

However, substance abuse was not the only problem for the couple. Bertinelli and Van Halen's marriage was also riddled with infidelity on both sides. Bertinelli was the first to have an affair according to Van Halen. She admitted that she did cheat.

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Valerie Bertinelli Honored On The Hollywood Walk Of Fame | Getty Images / Global Images Ukraine


Saying that it was in the earlier years of their marriage saying: "Yes, I did, four years into our marriage, cheat. And it was a shame and it was a guilt that I carried with me for a very long time. And I don't like that, so I really wanted to get that out of me."

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THEIR DIVORCE

The pair eventually split up, and their divorce was finalized in 2007. They have a 16-year-old son, Wolfgang, together. "I got tired of, once again, hiding and thinking this is not the life I want for myself, for Wolfie, especially, and I don't want to keep treating Ed so badly," explained Valerie.

Hoda Kotb with Valerie Bertinelli as she visits Sirius XM | Getty Images / Global Images Ukraine

Hoda Kotb with Valerie Bertinelli as she visits Sirius XM | Getty Images / Global Images Ukraine


Working on the CBS series ended up meaning much more for Bertinelli than she expected. The actress shared that the show ties with her life offscreen as a mother too. She joined fellow actors Della Reese, and John Dye on the series, which is about a group of angels that were sent to Earth, in order to help the distressed.

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INTRIGUING DETAILS ABOUT HER SON, WOLFGANG VAN HALEN

Wolfgang, as he is popularly referred to, is a fantastic bassist and musician. He started his career at a young age, and though he came from a family with a strong musical background, he did not allow that fact dissuade him from his goals. There are some things that people do not know about Wolfgang, here's a little about him.

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Siggy Flicker and Valerie Bertinelli at "Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen" | Getty Images / Global Images Ukraine


A LEGEND IS BORN

Wolfgang was born on March 16, 1991, and was named after composer, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart. His parents are Eddie Van Halen and Valerie Bertinelli, and he grew up around musicians. Although Wolfgang was drawn to music, he once mentioned that he never knew that his father was a famous musician.

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He only found out after he started picking up music in stores and saw many with his dad's picture on them. A tour was held for Van Halen in 2007 to 2008, and when it ended, Wolfgang decided to go back to school. He later finished school in 2010 and became a full-time bassist for Van Halen. 

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WOLFGANG'S CAREER

When Wolfgang began his musical career, he learned how to play the drum set, and the more he did, the better he was at it. Sometimes, he would watch his father rehearsing songs and meet his uncle, Alex for more drum lessons. Most of his drum-set skills were self-thought, and soon, his interest in music grew.

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After learning drum-set for many years, he moved on to play the guitar, bass, and keyboard. Over the years, Wolfgang has released amazing tracks while still working as a bassist for Van Halen. Wolfgang's musical career has been nothing short of thriving over the years, and he has built a solid fan-base too.

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HIS MUSIC STYLE

Everyone has their music style, and how they want it to be aired to the world, for Wolfgang, he is famous for hard rock and heavy metal. Wolfgang first got interested in the bass instrument when his father asked him to join him in playing and recording songs. Soon enough, he began to fall in love with the bass more.

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His father usually referred to himself as a rhythm bassist, and that talent has clearly carried over to the next generation. Some people perceive his bass style as phenomenal and unique, but the only reason Wolfgang got this good at playing the bass, is because he was consistent with practicing and perfecting his craft. 

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BERTINELLI ON TOUCHED BY AN ANGEL

For the couple, Bertinelli and Eddie Van Halen, who’ve been married for 20 years and have a 10-year old son, Wolfgang, the show works offscreen. The actress shared: "It's one show that I know for sure Wolfy can watch with me, and we can talk about and we can actually go into more serious subjects."

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She also feels like she’s come back to familiar territory. The actress returned to CBS, where she starred in ‘One Day at a Time’ from 1975-84 and has played in a number of different movies and series ever since. She added: "I feel like I've never really left. I'm always the most at home there."

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Bertinelli is an old friend of the show’s director. Regardless, the star was still hesitant about returning to a full-time series:  "I was just a little bit worried about working that much, because in the last 10 years I've been more a mom than anything. I used to call myself a sometime actress, and still think of myself that way."

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The actress’ main priority now is her family. Van Halen battled through cancer last year, and though he has since recovered, the frightening experience put everything into perspective. Her marriage seen a positive change in the last couple of years: "We're having the best years right now. It's taken us this long though; it's a work in progress."

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SOMETHINGS WE ALL DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT VALERIE

There are some secrets about Valerie Bertinelli that we all have missed. Let's begin with the fact that his beautiful woman can't leave her house without having her reading glasses. Unlike her marriage, Valerie's parents have been enjoying marital bliss for 59 years.

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She would love more than anything to live in Italy. Every Sunday, she has to drink coffee and do a crossword puzzle. Her time on a cooking show has really influenced her of late, saying that she would like to go to culinary school. Her favorite choice of drinks are champagne, zinfandel, or a dirty martini.

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She does needlepoint and even made a Christmas stocking for her son, Wolfie, that took her eight months to make when he was just 5. We've heard of golf carts being driven around studios in Hollywood, but Valerie actually takes it further by driving a street-legal golf cart to work every day.

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Valerie has expressed that if she could make every single thing one color, it'd be yellow. Obviously, Valerie's favorite color is yellow. We had no idea that she has a tattoo, but apparently, she does. She got a 'w' tattooed on her left ankle in honor of her son, Wolfgang.

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Who knew that the actress and television personality was so attached to her reading glasses. The tattoo is one that surprised us also. Which of these did you know beforehand and which did you get to find out about? Tell us in the comments section and share this article with a friend today.

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Sources: TV Over Mind, The Famous People, US Magazine, Wikipedia

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